Once the boxes are unpacked and the furniture is arranged, it's time to adjust to your new home. Moving to a new neighborhood can be overwhelming, and one way to smooth the transition is to find time to introduce yourself and your family to your neighbors. Don't wait until you need to borrow a power tool to meet your neighbors--knowing who is in your community will help you feel safer and, hopefully, you will make new friends too. You may think you don't have time to put in the effort to meet the people in your 'hood, but just a few simple steps can help speed the process:
- Curb appeal: Get outside and do yardwork or repairs around your home--not only is this good for your home, but your neighbors will probably notice you. This is a great opportunity to wave and say hello. Don't come on too needy, just be pleasant and drum up a conversation.
- Hit the park: Most neighborhoods have a park, a playground, or even a few benches where locals congregrate. Similar hangouts include community pools, libraries, and coffee shops. Make an effort to visit these areas, even if it's just to read a book. Ask your neighbors for recommendations on local attractions and they will probably be happy to share information with you.
- Explore common interests: If you have kids, you will most likely have an easy time meeting other parents in the neighborhood. Likewise, figure out what you have in common with people in your area, and be open to making a connection. Join a local exercise group, take a class in your neighborhood, or explore the arts scene.
- Knock, knock: Bringing a baked dessert over to your new neighbors' doorstep might sound like a scene from the 1950s, but there's nothing wrong with going out of your way to meet the people in your proximity. You might find an elderly neighbor who doesn't get out much who you otherwise would not have met.
- Host a party: You don't necessarily have to throw a block party to get people to like you--invite a small group over for coffee and muffins, or wine and cheese--once you've finished redecorating, of course.
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